Bring Your Sex Life Back To Life In These 5 Simple Ways

Once many people start having sex, they stop kissing.

Let me ask, when was the last time you kissed your partner? No, I'm not talking about those little kisses on the cheek or lips. I'm asking when the last time you really made out with a partner was. I'm talking about that tangle of tongues, hands on faces, hands on hair, it-feels-so-good-you-don't-know-what's-going-to-happen-next type of kiss. Yeah, I thought so. Once we start having sex (of any kind), kissing sort of goes out the window. 

Kissing is not the only thing that gradually dies once people start making out constantly, their sex life become monotonous. This is perhaps one of the reason married people complain of having boring sex. Here are 5 ways to rev up your sex life.

Sext while you're apart.

It'll build anticipation for fun times later in the day. Your rule of thumb for sexy texting is that if someone happened to see your screen they wouldn’t be disgusted—they’d just be jealous of your relationship. Send suggestive messages as all-day foreplay—a titillating hint of what may happen after you get home from the office. Just don’t get too explicit. 

Don't forget non-sexual touch.

Hugs, massages, an arm slipped around a waist—these small actions can all boost feelings of affection.

Shake things up.

If you're used to long, slow sessions like the ones Sting has (not really) had, change up routines by having the occasional quickie or getting jiggy with it in unusual places

Put sex on the schedule.

Toss out the idea that spontaneous sex is the only way to have good sex. When we're crazy busy, sex can be one of the first things to go by the wayside. But sex (especially simultaneous orgasms!) is also key to maintaining intimacy and relationship satisfaction—so come up with a schedule for doing it and stick to it. 

Have Sex When you Have Headaches

Blaming headaches for not wanting to have sex with your is an age-old adage passed from generation to generation. A study by researchers at the University of Munster in Germany found the opposite. According to the authors, “Our data suggest…that sexual activity can lead to partial or complete relief of headache in some migraine and a few cluster headache patients.” Time to retire that cliché